[Vnbiz] Staying to be a leader - how to change?

[Hien Nguyen]

Thanks brother Hoanh for your great share, by which I further understand the
hardship and struggle behind leadership and see the 'human' element in our
brother :-)

Hien.



On 4/8/07, Tran Dinh Hoanh <tdhoanh at gmail.com> wrote:


That leads me to brother Hien's question about myself.  Of course, I have my
> down time like everyone else.  But you just don't see it because you don't
> live with me, and I don't write about it.  :-)  However, you are correct
> that I am generally positive.  You question is "How do I stay positive all
> the time?"
>
> I can go over the long history of my search for personal development.  But
> not to bore everyone and just to make it short and sweet, I will mention two
> things:
>
> 1.  I have learned positive thinking from every personal development book
> under the sun, to train my mind to keep thinking "The glass is half full and
> never half empty" and "Every person is fundamentally good, with some
> weaknesses, not fundamentally bad."  (Confucius:  Nha^n chi so+ ti'nh bo^?n
> thie^.n .  Bibble:  Human is created in the image of God).
>
> However I find that all the psychology training can only help to some
> level, but not super-good.  Until ...
>
> 2.  I know how to pray constantly to God, all the time, many times during
> a day, about happy things, about bad things, about anger,
> about disappointment, about hope, about joy, abut everything, more or less
> like talking to a close friend.  Then I start to be able to draw from such
> boundless source of energy what I need to help me stay calm and gentle and
> loving all the time.  I pray not because I am religious or devoted or
> whatever, because I am not.  I pray because I know absolutely that I am too
> weak to be good.  I just have to pray constantly so that I may get the
> constant help.
>
> That's all.  I can expand these two short paragraphs into two very long
> messages to go over my growth experience.  But I guess these two summaries
> may be sufficient for now.
>
> Thanks for asking, brother Hien & sister Thu Huong.
>
> Have a great day!
>
> Hoanh
>
>
>
> On 4/7/07, huong dang thu <hdangthu at gmail.com > wrote:
> >
> > [ Vietnam Business Forum ]
> >
> >
> >
> > dear sis & bro,
> >
> > Sis Hien, thanks for your question for bro Hoanh. How meaningful it is!
> > Lovely bro, we really want to listen to your sharing. I know it's a great
> > question but hope you can find way to make it simple but useful. I think you
> > are always like that way-simple but useful. ^-^
> >
> > sis Dieu (we've already had 'older sis',' younger sis'. But in our case,
> > we are as young (and as beautiful ^0^) as each other, so can we call each
> > other...equal sis?? ^.^). thanks for your message. It's very meaningful. How
> > good it is to have a sis with great thinking like you ^-^. i also very
> > interest in our country-Vietnam. And I plan for learning more about it. If
> > you want to travel our country in the "di de hoc" way, you can share with
> > me. I have a group of students who passionately travel around VN. we can
> > share and make some trip together ;)
> >
> > 7/4 is the World Health day, rite?
> > wish my bro & sis excellent health!
> > HeO
> >
> >
> --
> Tran Dinh Hoanh, LLB, JD
> Attorney of Law
> Washington DC
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