[vn-families] Qua'n tu+o+?ng mo^.t thie^'u phu. la^`n dda^`u tie^n co' thai

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Cha`o GDVN,

Ca'c ba^.c cha me. hie^.n gio+` hoa(.c ca'c ba^.c cha me. trong
tu+o+ng lai (ga^`n hoa(.c xa) ne^n ddo.c ba`i du+o+'i dda^y va`
tu+o+?ng tu+o+.ng ca?nh mo^.t thie^'u phu. la^`n dda^`u tie^n
bie^'t mi`nh co' thai em be'\.

Qui' vi. tre? dda~ hoa(.c ddang su+?a soa.n dde^? co' gia ddi`nh
dda~ chua^?n bi. cho the^' he^. mo+'i dde^? tie^'p no^'i
mi`nh va` to^? tie^n mi`nh chu+a\? Hay la` mi`nh pho' ma(.c cho
luo^`ng gio' vo^ thu+o+`ng tho^?i to+'i dda^u thi` mi`nh ddi
to+'i ddo'\.?

Cha`o

Pha.m Quo^'c Bi`nh
http://vmdd.tech.mylinuxisp.com/buddhism/
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Tri'ch: http://www.langmai.org/TNH/Sach/ChiNamThienTap/ChiNam7.htm

Ba.n ha~y qua'n tu+o+?ng mo^.t thie^'u phu. la^`n dda^`u tie^n
bie^'t mi`nh co' thai em be'\.

Thie^'u phu. a^'y ca?m tha^'y rung ddo^.ng ca? tha^n ta^m khi
bie^'t ra(`ng mi`nh ddang mang trong mi`nh mo^.t sinh ma.ng
mo+'i\. Chu+a sinh con ma` ngu+o+`i me. dda~ ca?m tha^'y thu+o+ng
ye^u con ro^`i\. Ba` me. dda~ co' the^? ba('t dda^`u no'i
chuye^.n vo+'i con va` dda~ ve~ ra trong dda^`u ca'i ha.nh phu'c
ddu+o+.c la`m me.\. Con mi`nh chi'nh la` su+. tie^'p no^'i cu?a
mi`nh, con mi`nh cu~ng chi'nh la` mi`nh\. Trong ti`nh me. con,
con la` me., me. la` con\. Hai ma` la` mo^.t\. Ti`nh thu+o+ng
a^'y la` ti`nh thu+o+ng kho^ng pha^n bie^.t chu? the^? va`
ddo^'i tu+o+.ng\. Ca'i tha^'y ddo' la` vo^ pha^n bie^.t tri'
(the wisdom of non-discrimination), chu+`ng na`o ca'i tha^'y
a^'y co`n thi` kho^ng co' ky` thi., kho^ng co' gia^.n ho+`n,
kho^ng co' oa'n tra'ch\. Em be' ddu+o+.c sinh ra, lo+'n le^n
trong ti`nh thu+o+ng a^'y\. Cho dde^'n khi em be' ba('t dda^`u
ha`nh xu+? nhu+ mo^.t con ngu+o+`i ddo^.c la^.p, kho^ng hoa`n
toa`n tu`ng phu.c y' muo^'n cu?a me. mi`nh hay cha mi`nh\.

Ne^'u la` ngu+o+`i bie^'t thie^`n qua'n, thi` ngu+o+`i me. se~
tha^'y ra(`ng tuy ddu+'a con ba('t dda^`u co' nhu+~ng y'
tu+o+?ng, nhu+~ng ha`nh ddo^.ng va` nhu+~ng ngo^n tu+` kho^ng
phu` ho+.p vo+'i su+. tro^ng cho+` cu?a mi`nh, no' va^~n la`
con cu?a mi`nh, no' va^~n la` su+. tie^'p no^'i cu?a mi`nh, no'
va^~n la` mi`nh\. Va` mi`nh pha?i thu+.c ta^.p kie^n nha^~n
vo+'i chi'nh mi`nh\. Ne^'u kho^ng co' ca'i tha^'y a^'y, ba`
me. se~ ba('t dda^`u tha^'y kho^?, va` su+. bu+.c bo^.i, gia^.n
ho+`n oa'n tra'ch ba('t dda^`u pha't sinh\.